Midlife Worthy Moms
Welcome to the Midlife Worthy Moms, the podcast for Graceful Empty Nesters. I'm Kim Damon, founder of Midlife Discoveries, Worthy Moms. As a certified life and Enneagram coach for moms of adults, I'm here to help you find connection with your adult kids while embarking on your journey as an empty nester mom. Let's create drama remission with your kids, step kids, son-in-law, and daughter-in-law. Build a life based on grace and peace. Tune in each week for practical tips and valuable lessons on connecting with your adult children and living your best life. Together, let's transform our moments of rejection into joy and laughter.
Midlife Worthy Moms
Ep 104: The Detective Mom: Why We Find Only What We Are Looking For (And How to Change It)
Are you building a case against your grown child without even realizing it? In this eye-opening episode, we explore how our minds naturally look for evidence to support what we already believe—and how this can be destroying our relationships with our adult children.
Kim shares relatable examples of how we become "worry detectives," collecting proof that something is wrong while completely missing evidence that things are actually going well. You'll discover why your brain works this way and, more importantly, how to retrain it to see the whole picture.
Using practical strategies and biblical wisdom from Philippians 4:8, you'll learn how to become a more balanced observer of your relationships. This isn't about ignoring problems—it's about seeing the love and connection that's already there.
If you've been worried that your grown child doesn't care about you, this episode will help you discover the evidence you've been missing.
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